Marriage without kundali matching – A big risk says Vedic astrology

Marriage without kundali matching

Marriage without kundali matching

Is it alright to take the biggest decision of your life blindfolded?
This is what most people who do not believe in kundali matching do. They are very cautious and calculative risk takers in life, yet when it comes to marriage, they skip the step of kundali matching – opening themselves and their future to risk- a risk to their own happiness.

Vedic astrology, which is one of the ancient sciences has devised a very calculative method that can compare the nature of two partners and confirm whether they would be compatible or not. This process is called kundali matching.

A Kundali or birth horoscope is an astrological chart, created on the basis of the exact birth date, time and birth place of an individual. Kundali matching or Kundali milan is the Vedic astrology equivalent of horoscope matching for marriage.

The number of questions, fears and anxieties in one’s mind reaches a frenzy at the period before marriage.

Should one enter into marriage full of fear and anxiety? Not necessary, says Vedic astrology.

Vedic astrology shines the light on a marriage alliance through a scientific approach and calculations. It can answer a lot of questions about the alliance.

love marriage horoscope

love marriage horoscope

Risks without doing proper kundali matching are:

  • Incompatibility on all levels with the partner
  • Poor quality and nature of the partnership
  • Affected duration of the marriage – can end shortly through separation, divorce, death etc
  • Poor or no chances of children, wealth and fortunes through this alliance
  • Miseries or misfortunes due to this alliance

All these problems can be highlighted effortlessly under the expert hands of an astrologer, who can study both the horoscopes.

It is only after analyzing the pros and cons of the alliance that one can take an informed decision with clarity and confidence into the future. This is the power of Vedic astrology.

System of kundali matching

The guna milan is seen using Ashtkoot guna milan system.  36 Gunas are the aspects that need to be considered by comparing the horoscopes of the bride and groom to ascertain their compatibility with each other.

If at least 18 out of 36 gunas in both the horoscopes match, marriage would be recommended, otherwise not.

In astrology the koota or clusters under which the compatibility is seen are called as follows:

       Varna Koot (Society class) 1 point

       Tara Koot (Futuristic approach) points

       Graha Maitri Koot (Mentality and mutuality) 5 points

       Bhakoot (Health) 7 points

       Vashya Koot (Mutual attraction) 2 points

       Yoni Koot (Sexual life) 4 points

       Gana Koot (Behaviour) 6 points

       Nadi Koot (Pregnancy and child) 8 points

Important planets in kundali matching

Study of sun, moon, mars etc are important in terms of planetary influence.

  • The horoscopes of both prospective partners are analyzed
  • Important aspects like 7th house, its lord and navamsha have to be additionally studied while doing a horoscope match.
  • The position of mars with respect to Mangal dosha should be studied.
  • The mutual positions of moon need to be studied. If the position of their moon is in Kendra, trine or 11th from each other, then both bride and groom will agree on same points. If the moon is in 3rd,6th,8th or 12th than clashes are bound to happen. It also leads to lack of emotional bonding.
  • In the case of Sun’s placement of both groom and bride, if their relative position is favourable then it will lead to strong friendship between bride and groom.

Common doshas which can be avoided through kundali matching

  • Mangal dosha is a common dosha, which creates a lot of aggression and problems in the marital front. This can be detected during kundali matching.
  • Kaal Sarp doshas (when all seven planets are placed between Rahuand Ketu), etc., can also create lot of problems in marriage, and can be detected during kundali matching.

One can get one’s kundali matching online and additionally verified by an expert astrologer to ensure a harmonious and happy married life.

Vedic astrology removes the risk of an unhappy marriage through proper kundali matching.

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Overcoming Marital Problems with Astrology

marital problems with astrology

marital problems with astrology

Problems in married life can severely affect the all-round well-being of an entire family. The partners in the marriage suffer a lot of daily stress and it affects every other part of their life also. Some amount of problems are common with all marriages, however when they begin to start affecting the emotional and physical intimacy and bonding between the spouses, it’s a red signal to take action and bridge the gap. Most of the time, people do not like outside interference from family and friends in marital problems. Other than giving moral support, there is nothing more outsiders can do. However, counselling as well as astrological advice can go a long way in helping individuals get back on the right track.

How can astrology help in marital problems?   Ask Questions

By looking at the birth chart, an astrologer can mention the kind of problems that are currently being faced. An expert astrologer would follow a specific process to pinpoint the reasons why the problems are happening. There may be several reasons but the main reason has to be tackled in a timely manner. The astrologer can also provide many remedies for the same. If the native has complete faith and wants to make a positive difference, astrology can definitely help him or her to a large extent.

What type of marital problems can astrology solve?

Astrology can pinpoint and also solve the complete range of marriage problems no matter how big or small. Usually problems arise due to incompatibility between spouses, lack of emotional or physical bonding, lack of trust, increase in misunderstandings, extramarital affairs, financial problems, slow professional growth, in-laws problems, domestic disputes etc.

Following are some of the steps that would be taken via smart astrology

Analysis of the 7th house: The 7th house in a person’s birth chart signifies marriage. The analysis of this house is the first step taken by an astrologer. A troubled marriage would surely reflect back on this house.

Each house in Vedic astrology is ruled by a particular planet. Strength of lord of 7th house in the natal chart is checked.

  • Status of birth chart: All significant houses are checked. The 2ndhouse is the house of wealth, possessions, money and values. This is also checked for overall predictions and calculations. The 4th house signifies home, family, sense of belonging, emotional security, the role in family dynamics, bonding etc. The state of this house is also correlated
  • Strength of Venus: Venus is highly significant for marriage and associated happiness. Moon also indicates happiness, comfort and marital bliss. Venus expresses the emotions and the emotions are signified by moon. It is important to analysis Venus with respect to its position, aspect, conjunctions and condition of Venus in terms of its motion, closeness to sun and its afflictions.
  • Analysis of benefic planets: Moon, Jupiter, Venus and Mercury are generally benefic planets and auspicious in nature. If a person has marital problems, then it is possible that these planets are weak, afflicted and not positioned in a positive manner for the native.
  • Analysis of malefic planets – The malefic planets in any horoscope are Saturn, Mars and Rahu. Their impact can cause a host of marital problems. Their position on the 7th house and also on the birth chart have to be analyzed to pinpoint the problems.
  • Analysis of yog or doshas: The conjunction of certain combination of planets cause certain yogas to be formed in a person’s horoscope. Kal Sarpa Dosh, Mangal dosh etc. are a few of the common doshas which increase possibility of many marital problems. All of these can be remedied through astrological remedies.

Remedies in astrology

Remedies are always a part and parcel of astrology, as it believes in tackling the root issue. Most of the time this means trying to lessen the harmful influence of strong and negative planets in our birth chart. Some of the common methods are increasing the auspicious and stronger positive vibrations via gemstone therapy, mantra chanting, performing simple prayers to specific deities etc. An expert astrologer can help recommend practical and simple approaches, to fill the gaps and remove the negative energy field around us.

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Will Your Love Relationship end in Marriage or Not? Astrology Can Tell



Very often, we do find the person of our dreams. We seem to be compatible in each and every way, and naturally the question of spending the whole life with that person crosses our minds. Two people may be compatible in the sense that they may enjoy spending time with each other and have similar interests. This is compatibility in the worldly sense. The science of Vedic astrology however defines compatibility based on many more parameters to ensure that the life ahead is a smooth and fulfilling one for both people. Kundali matching is done for this before marriage.

However, the topic here is whether the love relationship can turn to marriage or not. The possibility of such a marriage being smooth or rocky is a different one. However, the question, “When Will I get married “, can be answered too via Vedic astrology.

How does astrology confirm if you will have a love relationship?

Your janma kundali, and your lagnesh or lord of the 1st house can give vital clues about your personality, character and potential to have a love relationship. If you already have a partner, the horoscope of both the people are thoroughly analyzed in order to understand whether a love relationship can turn to marriage.

The 7th house in one’s birth chart or janma kundali signifies the house of marriage. In addition to this the 2nd house of family and the 11th house of friendship and fulfillment also come into the picture. In case of arranged marriages, the interaction may start through the 2nd and 11th houses and then the alliance is finalized through the 7th house.

The 5th house represents pleasures, romance, music, dance, entertainment, amusement, places of amusement, Love-affairs, success in love affairs, courtship or dating, attraction etc. Whenever there is a love relationship, the 5th house is involved.

How astrology checks whether love can turn into marriage?

Whether or not the love affair will materialize into a marriage alliance depends upon the association of the 5th with the 7th house.

You may be attracted towards someone when the dasha of the lord of the ascendant is running in a Janma Kundali. Issues related to love are analyzed through the fifth house in a Kundali. A person may fall in love when he is under the influence of the dasha of the fifth lord or the dasha of a planet placed in the fifth house.

Some planets also naturally propel the person towards a love affair when their dasha is running. Most love affairs begin in the dasha of Mercury, Rahu, Venus and Moon irrespective of their placement in any house.

The dasha of all these planets causes the mind to become restless or passionate, and love affairs that start and end quickly are possible. The relationships formed during this dasha may not be lasting in nature.

When does love not turn into marriage?

  • Love is not converted into a marriage if the seventh house or the lord of the seventh house does not have a relationship with the ascendant, the lord of the ascendant, the fifth house, the lord of the fifth house, the ninth house or the lord of the ninth house.
  • It may also happen that both the fifth and the seventh house are weak and afflicted by malefic planets. Due to all these reasons, love relationships do not turn into marriages.
  • If combinations for love are there in the janma kundali but not in the D9 or navamsha charts, again marriage will not happen.
  • A love marriage is also not possible when the lord of the fifth house is present in the ninth house or when the lord of the ninth house is present in the fifth house.

Therefore, one must put faith in the hands of an india vedic astrologer to look at whether the love relationship that one has can be converted to marriage or not.

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Mending Relations with Mother-in-law using Vedic Astrology

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vedic astrology

The word “Mother-in-law” can mean different things to different people. Many are blessed to have a mother-in-law who is like a second mother. They enjoy a good friendship and also learn a lot from each other. On the other hand, and that too more often, people complain of bad mother-in – laws.

These people may be living either in a joint family system or they may be closely interacting with the mother-in-law at all times. This can be a draining and highly stressful and negative experience if the relations are not good. Very often, small and trivial issues start becoming larger due to misunderstandings that develop between the two people.

The husband is usually caught in the crossfire between the wife and mother-in-law and has to walk a delicate thin line to please both the parties. Thus, sour relations slowly build up over time, and become full-blown domestic conflict creating rift and separation.

In modern times, as women become more independent, such clashes and conflict of interest can rise easily with the older generation. However, it is important for the well-being of the whole family that relations are kept well, and harmonious.

How does one take control of turning around the relationship?

It can start with developing understanding of the mother in law’s nature, becoming aware of root cause of the problems, and take a practical approach to solve the problem. Astrology can help in each of these areas: 

  • In the janma kundali or birth chart, the tenth house is analyzed for your mother in law. In a woman’s horoscope, Jupiter is the Husband so, 4th house from Jupiter will represents husband’s mother. Planets in 10th house, lord of 10th house, 4th house from Jupiter and lord of 4th house from Jupiter are all looked into.
  • Not only the birth, but the navamsa charts of a girl are also analyzed for a broad astrological indication about quality of this relation.
  • The personality of a person is represented by the ascendant lord viz. the lord of the first house. So one must evaluate the relation between the ascendant lord and the 10th lord in the birth as well as the Navansh Charts. This gives a broad probable indication.

All marriage prediction are usually made, based on Dashmesh or lord of the 10th house, its position in the chart, planets affecting or aspecting it.

Nature of mother-in-law per astrology – position of lord of 10th house or Dashmesh

If Dashmesh is weak or staying into enemy rashi, then Mother in law displays cheap behavior.

If Dashmesh is staying in his own house or stay in rashis that are favourable then Mother in law will be powerful, and she will behave with one as their real mother.

If Dashmesh is SUN then Mother in law will be like a dictator or very authoritative,  not wanting anyone to  go against her decision.

If Dashmesh is Moon or moon exists into 10th House then mother in law will be very polite, soft speaking and caring. Here if Moon is  malefic then mother in law can stoop to emotional black-mail.

If Dashmesh is Mars or exists into 10th House then mother in law will be of a tough nature, and disciplined. If Mars is favorable then mother in law will be very helpful and if Mars is malefic then mother in law will have rude and selfish nature.

If Dahsmesh is Mercury and if mercury is malefic then she can easily use her communication skills and arguments to win over others.

If Dashmesh is either Jupiter or Jupiter exists into 10th House and Jupiter is favorable in one’s birth chart then mother in law will be caring and very soft hearted. If Jupiter is malefic then mother in law will be very sarcastic.

If Dashmesh is Saturn or Saturn exists into 10th House then mother in law will be very stubborn and narrow minded. If Saturn is favorable then she will be helpful in any complex social problems and if Saturn is malefic then it would be the reverse.

Pitru dosh is another major reason for domestic troubles, and one must ensure he ancestors are appeased for domestic turbulences to be stopped in full.

Remedies as per vedic astrology

Only an expert astrologer can study the situation from a bigger context, understand natures of both the people involved and suggest the right solution.

  • Factors impacting the 10th house and its lord are studied
  • It is essential to appease dashmesh for turning adversities of the planets into virtues.  Malefic planets causing troubles need to be appeased.

Gemstones, yantras, japa of specific deities and simple poojas and rituals can be done regularly to ease the relationship problems. Appeasing ancestors through yearly pooja is also a must.

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How Astrology Predicts Longevity of Marriage

Marriage is a sacred institution and its also a once in a lifetime commitment for everyone. A lot of forethought goes into selecting the right partner and ensuring that the bond is forever. While some people prefer to tie the knot with someone they have known for a long time, others put their faith into the system of an arranged marriage, and settle down in life. They say marriages are made in heavan and when we see couples who have lived together through thick and thin, perfectly complementing each other, the statement comes true. Can anything be predicted about the outcome of marriages beforehand? Logically it’s not possible. Unless you marry someone and start living with them, the outcome cannot be understood. However, there is a glimpse of the future and an answer to this question in astrology.

astrology predicts longevity of marriage

astrology predicts longevity of marriage

Astrology can predict the longevity of a marriage. For this, many people first evaluate the janma kundali of the respective partners. They also try to look up online kundali matching which is available nowadays, as well as try and get online marriage prediction between two people with calculations based on the birth date, time and location.

Let us understand some of the factors that are looked into for longevity of marriage. A marriage that is compatible also becomes automatically of a long duration, as there are no clashes or issues. The Ashtakoot guna milan which is done, gives a compatibility score based on various factors of both the male and female horoscopes. A score of above 18 out of 36 is considered as good compatibility and this system is usually one of the main factors to decide the longevity of marriage.

The personality of a person is judged from their 1st house and it reflects their personality and characteristics. The rashi that a person belongs to determines their nature. There are various calssifications of rashis such as vayu, jal, agni etc. These determine the mental temparements. Certain rashis are compatible with others while they clash with others, leading to clash of opinions, way of acting etc disturbing the marriage and affecting its longevity.

The 7th house of one’s kundali deals with marriage. Any problem with this house, such as the aspect of Shani or Mars, placement of rahu and Ketu and other malefic planets can give issues in marriage, one of which could be affecting the longevity and leading to separation. Further, in the detailed charts like Navamsha chart also, if the astrologer finds an issue with the 7th house, clashes is certain in the marriage.

Below factors signify that marriage possibly won’t be of long duration:

  • The stars and planets which have their impacts on marriage are the Sun, Mars, Saturn, Rahu and Ketu.
  • An afflicted or debilitated 2nd lord denies family life. A debilitated planet in the 2nd house denies or creates trouble in family life. 2nd house and 7th house are interconnected. 2nd house represents family and 7th house represents spouse.
  • 8th house in the horoscope reveals about the possibilities and happening of divorce. If the 7th house is related with the Sun then it will create differences in married life. The 8th and 12th house are related to divorce and separations
  • If the planet Venus is positioned with the Sun in any one house among 2nd, 4th, 7th and 9th then it is very clear that issues will occur
  • If Mars is present in the 1st or in 7th house then it brings quarrels and disputes among the couple.
  • If Saturn is associated with any one of the house 1st and 7th then the partners will remain suspicious about each other.
  • If Ketu is present in any marriage related house, then the couple will not have a good bonding among them.

These are some of the signs which expert vedic astrologers use to recommend their opinion regarding the longevity of a marriage.

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How Astrology Predicts: Emotional Bonding with Spouse

In love or arranged marriage continued success happens only due to strong emotional bonding between the couple. We hear far too often of people who have lost interest in their partners saying they have drifted apart emotionally, or that they are no longer interested in the other person.

marriage prediction

marriage prediction

This shows that some of the finer feelings like trust, mutual respect, sympathy, care, concern, tolerance and above all love is missing in the relationship. Every relationship has to be invested with time and cultivated with deep love to flourish.

On the other hand, who have strong kundali milan, and who have been married for 30, 40, 50 years and more. They enjoy a beautiful friendship, emotional bonding and can even complete each other’s sentences!

What then is the magic element in their marriage horoscope  and how is it that some relationships are maintained beautifully while others go out of balance? A look at one’s janma kundali can help reveal interesting answers to this for you.

Indications for strong emotional bonding are:

Well-placed houses

  • As per Vedic astrology the 7th house in a birth chart is the main house of marriage. In general, the 7th house and its lord must be free of malefic planetary influences
  • Second house is responsible for overall family life should be analyzed.
  • The 5th house is the house of romance, love, progeny, state of mind and emotions and intellect. This should be analyzed.
  • A relation between 7th and 5th house can usher in romantic feelings, important for emotional bonding

Planetary influences

  • The planet Venus which signifies the fine loving feelings in a person, must be not under malefic influences such as Mars etc. It must be strong and well-placed
  • Moon also plays an important role, and its position is important as it handles emotions. Its association with Rahu, Saturn or any such malefic planet can give rise to domestic disturbances, doubts and anxieties. Moon signifies motherly feelings and love. Its positioning can increase the nurturing aspect or if malefic and affected emotions can run dry
  • Condition of Mercury should be analyzed as condition of Mercury indicates the level of communication and tolerance between the couple. Communication is key in all relationships.

Strong mercury in mutual horoscopes indicates more time for enjoying and growing the relationship through free communication.

  • Position of planets such as Sun also need to be checked. Sun – signifies pride, inspiration, ego and leadership. Does the man have authoritative nature or does the woman lead in the relationship?
  • Mars signifies action and warrior spirit. Its wrong positioning can create arguments and temper troubles among the spouses
  • An auspiciously placed Jupiter endows wisdom and good thinking for relationship

Ongoing dashas

  • Ongoing Antardashas and Mahadashas in the lives of both should be taken into consideration by analyzing their horoscopes. Because sometimes it has been observed that marriage done in dasha of some bad planet either in boy’s or girl’s life affects married life negatively.

Simple remedies for increasing auspiciousness and bonding in relationship:

  • Husband & Wife both can worship lord Shiva & Parvati and increase devotion.
  • A wife’s standing position per scriptures is on the left side of the husband. Being aware of this is consideration gives significant results.
  • Wife should chant “Durga Chalisa” for a happy & prosperous life. It is recommended to wear gold bangles and mangalsutra at all times, for overall auspiciousness.
  • Wipe floor with salt water daily or at least once a week, to reduce the negative energy.
  • Various mantras pertaining to improving relationships and reducing negative energy of arguments can be said as per astrologers advise.

In summary emotional bonding in a relationship depends upon many factors, such as one’s own nature and personality and the planetary positions in one’s janma kundali . The malefic and negative influences of Rahu, Shani etc. on the planets, can cause minimal to severe disturbances for a short or long-drawn period putting stress on the relationship.

One must consult an expert astrologer to look at remedies for strengthening emotional bond, which is the bedrock of a relationship.

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What are the most important planets that astrologers see for marriage, while kundali matching.

kundali matching

kundali matching

The matching of kundalis is an important first step prior to deciding a marriage alliance. This is part of Indian culture and takes into account the divine science of astrology in ensuring a compatible marriage between two people.

Our ancient rishis were highly advanced and could study the movement of the planets, nakshatras and constellations etc to deduce several theories, calculations and conclusions. Along with their deep intelligence, they were also in sync with vibrations of the Supreme creator, and hence this knowledge is the truth, and has been tested in the laboratory of life, and proved to be true when performed accurately, as per the vedic texts.

Even in the modern context, the divine science of astrology is gaining back its glorious prestige as the west has slowly now begun to understand the depth and intelligence behind our systems.

Be it marriage, health, career or any aspect of life, astrology can give one the tools to understand a picture of one’s life in the present moment – what is the current reality, what are my current weaknesses and strengths, what is possible and not possible right now, and how and when can my desires get fulfilled.

The number of questions, fears and anxieties in one’s mind reaches a frenzy at the period before marriage. Are the decisions being taken right or wrong, will this lead to a good outcome or not? These type of questions sometimes cannot give any definite assurance from anywhere, and saying yes to a marriage alliance can seem just like a leap of faith.

Should one enter into a marriage blindfolded? No!

Vedic astrology shines the light on a marriage alliance through a scientific approach and calculations. It can answer a lot of questions about the alliance. Kundali matching by date of birth can help you understand:

  • How compatible one is with the partner – using a scoring system
  • The quality and nature of the partnership
  • The duration of the marriage
  • Chances of children, wealth and fortunes through this alliance
  • Are there any miseries or misfortunes due to this alliance

All these questions can be answered effortlessly under the expert hands of an astrologer, who can study both the horoscopes.

It is only after analyzing the pros and cons of the alliance that one can take an informed decision with clarity and confidence into the future. This is the power of vedic astrology.

Which planets are studied in kundali matching?

Study of sun, moon, mars etc are important in terms of planetary influence.

  • The horoscopes of both prospective partners are analyzed
  • The guna milan is seen using Ashtkoot guna milan system. A score of 18 guna matching out of 36 is considered good for marriage
  • Important aspects like 7th house, its lord and navamsha ave to be additionally studied while doing a horoscope match.
  • The position of mars with respect to Mangal dosha should be studied.
  • The mutual positions of moon need to be studied. If the position of their moon is in Kendra, trine or 11th from each other, then both bride and groom will agree on same points. If the moon is in 3rd,6th,8th or 12th than clashes are bound to happen. It also leads to lack of emotional bonding.
  • In the case of Sun’s placement of both groom and bride, if their relative position is favourable then it will lead to strong friendship between bride and groom.

What is the remedy if kundali’s don’t match, after study of planets?

When the janam kundali does not match, consultation with an experienced astrologer is certainly recommended to get the upayas (solutions) of the doshas (problems.

  • Mangal dosha is a common dosha, and there are several remedies for the same in astrology.
  • Kaal Sarp doshas (when all seven planets are placed between Rahuand Ketu), etc., need to be carefully studied to ensure happy alliance and successful marriage with children.

True horoscope matching is a detailed and intensive process where several factors are correlated. One should take the full horoscope of both individuals and drill into all aspects such as health, longevity, mental and physical strengths, weaknesses, complementary strengths (how one individuals’ strength compensates for the others’ weakness), finances, personality traits etc. This gives a complete picture if an alliance is recommended or not as per astrology.